It does not matter what life brings you. It matter how you interpret the experience. If you can see only the benefit, you’ve got life beat at that level – being convinced that it is the only way to see things. Any other way is just the way of not knowing. So just go with the program of correct interpretation.
What if I am right? Is it too easy? Should life be difficult? No! I suppose when we don’t see the benefit in each situation it could be difficult. Maybe that’s the Force trying to get your attention, and it listens to you, speaks to you, and answers you. The answers come as lessons. What we do with the lessons depends on whether we’re paying attention in order to hear the message we need in order to succeed.
The lessons are there. Keep your eyes and ears open, and you will always know just how to proceed.