A mansion is a shack and a shack can be a mansion when you have IT.
Beauty is ugly and ugly is beauty when you have IT.
Everyone is the same that sees the outer, but what if all is taken away? What is left? Are you still you? Did your possessions or looks make you? Are you free in yourself, or are you your past, where you had to make choices of what was important at the time?
If you can go back in time will you change anything? If you said yes, you will not be who you are today. The past was just a learning experience and to make you the best you can be.
So you forgave everyone including yourself for what happened in the past? You are free to live your life Now, without any attachments. If only I did this or that, today will be different. Do you want different? It is just understanding and being able to breathe freely, and having an untroubled mind that is open and can work without fear. It’s about making decisions without worry of what if. You become solid and happier in living life, and having no problems in the coming day, year, or decade.
It is all right. You are able to be the best you can be, and that is what it is all about.